SUNNATS OF A GATHERING

The following does not only apply to an Islamic gathering but can be implemented in all types of gatherings.

Effort should be made that Allah Ta'aala is remembered in every gathering and Durud Sharif is recited at least once in the gathering. Hereunder are a few Sunnah (Plural of Sunnah) taken from Hadeeth:

* It is not permissible for a person to sit, in a gathering, between 2 people without their   

   permission. (Tirmizi)

* It is incorrect to remove any person from his seat and sit in his place. (Bukhaari)

* Sit close together and not far apart. (Abu Dawud)

* If any person comes into a gathering, then out of respect, one should make place for

   him. This will make the new comer feel accepted (It is therefore advised even if there is

   place in the gathering). (Baihaqi)

* If there are three people in a gathering, it is wrong for 2 people to speak in a language

    which is foreign to the third. (Bukhaari)

* Nabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam has mentioned a Duaa to be recited before standing

   up from a gathering. It will be a means of forgiveness of the sins commited in it. Insha

   Allah I will send out the dua tomorrow.

NAMAZ E JUMA KI FAZELATH....

Rishtedaaro se achchha bartaw

1. Rishtedaar se achchha bartaw karne se maal aur umar mai barkat hoti hai. Adimi buri maut se bach jata hai, musibat tal jati hai, khushhali ati hai, gunaha maaf hote hai, nekiya qubul hoti hai.

2. Apna nasb-nama yaad rakhkho taki apni khandaan walo ke sath shila-rahemi (achchha bartaw) karne mai asani ho.

3. Jo adimi sadka-khayrat karta hai, rishtedaro se achchha bartaw karta hai allah paak usski umar mai barkat ata farmata hai. Aur uski mushibate dur farmata hai.

4. Bagawat karna aur rishte todna bahut bada gunaha hai. Uski saza duniya mai bhi milti hai aur akhirat mai bhi milti hai.

5. Hazrat ma-aaz bin jabal raziallaho anho ka bayan hai – ek din allah ke rasul ne farmaya – jisne dil se is baat ki gawahi di ki allah ke alawa koi mabud nahi aur mohammed allah ke rasul hai, allah us par duzakh ki aag haram farmadega. Unho ne arz kiya-ya rasul allah! To fir yah khukhkhabri mai logo ko suna du? Aapne farmaya-Maa.aaz! agar tum logo ko yah baat bata doge to wah issi par bharosa kar lege. (aur nek amal karne aur gunha se bachne ki parwa nahi karege)

6. Padoshiyon ke sath shila –rahemi (achchha bartaw) karne se umar mai barkat aur ghar mai khushhali raheti hai.

7. Tumhara jo rishtedaar tum se rishta tode tum use jodne ki koshish karo.

8. Apne maa-baap ko razi rakhkho, allah tum se razi rahega.

9. Maa-baap aur rishtedaar se achchha bartaw karne se gunaha maaf hote hai.

10. Jo adimi apne walid ke intiqaal ke baat bhi use achchha bartaw karna chahata hai to use chahiye ki apne walid ke dosto ke sath achchha bartaw kare.

11. Jo bado ki izzat aur chhoto se pyar na kare wah hamara nahi.

12. Rishtedariyan todne wala jannat main a ja sakega.